Soo sorry for what has happened to your beautiful daughter. Its such an unimaginable painful time for all of your family. Sadly schools are just not equipped to deal with the complex needs of the Autistic child.I have three children on the spectrum and had to remove them from the education system even though they are academically bright.Life is very difficult for them with anxiety issues and I can't help feeling cheated out of an education for them but unfortunately the systems that are in place now are not fit for purpose.